Monday, December 15, 2008

Don't Tell Me Not to Live

I worry way too much about pleasing other people, especially my parents. From the time I was an infant to now, I can't ever remember disobeying my parents or going against their wishes. I suppose they know what's best for me... but do they? On second thought, I don't think they do. I, and I alone know what is best for me. I know what I need. I know what I want.

I am glad to say that I am finally beginning to be more assertive. For example, my father, an employee at occc, wants me to go there. But am I going to go there? There is not a chance in hell. I make my own decisions (or at least the ones that influence my future). I worked hard to be where I am today. I am better than occc, and I know it.

If there's one thing I can stress it's to be your own person. Don't let others change you. Don't let others tell you what to do. You are the only one that knows what it is that you are trying to get out of life. Always trust your own judgement over someone else's.

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